Jail weddings made clear and doable
Getting married while your person is in custody — one clear path forward.
We handle the paperwork order, the notary step, and the officiant coordination, so you’re not guessing your way through Kern County’s process on your own.
When you Think you are Ready to get married, call ThinkReady at 844-657-3239.
$150 notary only
$450 officiant only
full service — quoted by phone
Paperwork, in order
We walk you through the Kern County in-custody marriage sequence — including the Inability to Appear step — in the order the Clerk’s Office expects it.
Notary & officiant, coordinated
We provide notary services and line up the right officiant role, keeping the two people separate when the county requires it.
Facility scheduling, handled
Once your license is ready, we help you prepare for the facility’s availability, attendance limits, and ceremony-day rules.
How the process works
Every case depends on the person’s housing status, facility rules, Clerk’s Office requirements, and appointment availability. This is the practical path we help you work through.
1.
Call JailWedding.com
We begin with a phone call. We will ask where your loved one is housed, what paperwork has already been started, and whether there are any urgent timing concerns.
2.
Get clear on the paperwork
We help you understand the in-custody marriage paperwork sequence, including the inability-to-appear process and the custody notice step.
3.
Complete the notary step
We provide notary services for the required jail wedding paperwork and coordinate the appropriate role structure when the same person cannot notarize and solemnize.
4.
Move through the license step
Once the required paperwork is ready, we help coordinate the officiant side of the marriage license process, so you are not managing it alone.
5.
Prepare for facility scheduling
After the marriage license is issued, the ceremony must be scheduled according to the facility’s rules, availability, and required notice.
6.
Get married and finish the paperwork
The ceremony is simple, non-contact, and facility directed. Afterward, the marriage paperwork must be completed correctly so it can be properly recorded.
Facilities we work with
Facility status and ceremony location are always set by the Kern County Sheriff’s Office — not by us.
Lerdo Pre-Trial Facility
Lerdo Justice Facility
Lerdo Minimum Security / Minimum Facility matters
Lerdo Max/Med Security Facility, when applicable
Central Receiving Facility
What we help with
Initial phone consultation
Inability to Appear paperwork coordination
Kern County in-custody marriage process guidance
Notary services for required documents
Notice of Incarcerated Individual process guidance
Scheduling preparation after the license is issued
Officiant coordination for the license and ceremony
Interpreter coordination for other languages when needed and allowed
English ceremony service
Post-ceremony paperwork guidance
What to expect on the day
Facility status and ceremony location are always set by the Kern County Sheriff’s Office — not by us.
- A non-contact ceremony
- Facility approval before the ceremony can occur
- Security screening for approved participants
- Strict limits on who may attend
- No rings, flowers, decorations, cameras, audio recording, video recording, or media coverage
- Ceremony timing based on facility visiting schedules and availability
- Possible interpreter requirements when translation is needed
If you feel like you’re figuring this out alone right now — that’s a normal place to be standing.
Our job is to make the next step obvious, explain it in plain language, and stop you from losing time to a requirement you didn’t know was coming.
Simple where we can make it simple.
Pricing
Notary only
$150
Document notarization on its own. Doesn’t include officiant work, ceremony coordination, county fees, or extra visits.
Officiant only
$450
For cases where the notary step, paperwork, and license path are already handled or being managed elsewhere.
Full service
Quoted
Depends on the facility, where your paperwork stands, interpreter needs, and how many appointments it takes.
Frequently asked questions
The earlier you call, the more delays we can help you avoid.
$150 notary only
$450 officiant only
Private service — not a government agency
Jail Wedding is a private wedding, notary, and coordination service. We are not affiliated with, endorsed by, or employed by the Kern County Sheriff’s Office, the Kern County Clerk, or any government agency.
We don’t provide legal advice. All in-custody marriages are subject to current law, Kern County Clerk requirements, facility approval, and Kern County Sheriff’s Office policy. Services and pricing are subject to confirmation.
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